Greetings.
If you're reading this I'm willing to bet , as I was , you've been told the phrase "I love you, BUT, I'm not IN love with you".
If you've read the MY STORY page you'll know I went through what you are going through now, all the confusion, self-doubt, sense of loss, pain and feeling of being completely lost and vulnerable. On this page you will find quick access links to the help it took me months to find. Answers that helped me understand the phrase, why I was hearing it, and the pathways to recovery and, certainly in my case, a better life and relationships.
The help and answers come in many forms and levels of cost. There's books, podcasts, webpages, seminars, courses and coaching. My goal here is to simplify the choices for you as much as possible, and give you a brief, independent assessment of each from my experience, and hopefully get you moving forward much quicker than I did. The services and products will be broken into PREMIUM, ECONOMY, and FREE brackets, with a basic outline of each, how they helped me and how to access them.
By far the greatest help for me was a course/coaching platform that completely turned my thinking and life around. I am forever grateful for it. It is a premium level product, and you will need to assess if it fits your budget. You will find it below, along with all the other help, and more detailed descriptions.
Goodluck , I hope you find these tools, products and services as helpful as I did, and you not only find happiness and a strong and fulfilling relationship, but also the greatest version of yourself possible.
It's the life you deserve .
PREMIUM LEVEL
Of all the help I used , this course was by far the best. Without being too dramatic, as I started this course I was not in a good place , having the thoughts no one should have, let alone a father of 2 amazing children (adults now). Not only did it address the reasons I had been told " I love you, but I'm not IN love with you", it helped me discover why I was the person I was, why some things were undoing all the good I did in my relationships, and gave me all the tools to become exactly who I wanted to be. It is a holistic online course where the awesome coaches run weekly group sessions (which make it easier, trust me) and some one on one sessions. Included is an amazing phone app that provides help tools at your finger tips any time you need them. For me the guided meditations included were extremely helpful, however there are many tools available to deal with all the confronting feelings and situations you may be dealing with , and they're available instantly.
I can't recommend this course highly enough, IT SAVED MY LIFE. It is a significant investment, one that was difficult for me to fund, however given the benefit of hindsight, was the best investment I've ever made, so much so, on completion of the course I immediately signed up for the follow up course on personal growth.
For further information and how to book a free consultation with their coaches/councillors, please shoot me an email on the below link and we'll get the ball rolling .
iloveyoubut@outlook.com.au
ECONOMY
BE THE ONLY MAN SHE NEVER LEAVES- COLE WESTON
This book was written for every man that's been told "I love you, but I'm not in love with you".
'You've spent your whole life being told that being a good man is enough. It's not.'
This quote from the book hits the nail on the head. We have to learn how to live for ourselves again, how to be the leader she wants to see, the strong man that makes her feel safe. It can be you.
click the link below to get your copy from Amazon.
FIERCE INTIMACY- TERRY REAL
This book was the first recommended to me in my journey. I have since found it is well renowned in relationship counselling circles, and with good reason. It teaches communication with love and respect, despite arguments. It alerts you to your triggers and self sabotaging habits. This book was the first tool that set me on my path to recovery. As I work on the road, the audio version was great to listen to as I travelled during the day, or on the headphones on my daily walks. I highly recommend it.
Just click on the Amazon link below to get your copy.
https://www.amazon.com.au/Fierce-Intimacy/dp/B07FXXDT92?&linkCode=ll2&tag=iloveyoubut-22&linkId=f3a886b27970ee3b98a14a7692713014&ref_=as_li_ss_tl
https://www.amazon.com.au/Fierce-Intimacy/dp/B07FXXDT92?crid=3B6V97PZYBF50&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.2_G6j1gJnZa2IokssqrgQndcdV41zPx2MWokRONht0s_dUfkAaCX6FmLtzu-PNYP2mor8gDBJGrrffFeOWus_A.GmS8Y3__N6XCMhJc6Sis6PzveLc9CJ5fTKLT_z2DLWE&dib_tag=se&keywords=fierce+intimacy+terry+real&qid=1775088225&sprefix=fierce+int%2Caps%2C340&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll2&tag=iloveyoubut-22&linkId=36559511dab549ef895afd21d79ef1f6&ref_=as_li_ss_tl